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Dopamine menu
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A dopamine menu is a personal list of enjoyable activities to choose from when a break or a change of pace would help. It gives you ready options, without promising that every choice will improve your mood or motivation.
Mayo Clinic · 202501
Building and using a dopamine menu
Organize enjoyable options by the kind of break they fit. A notebook or phone note can hold music, reading, cooking, a creative hobby or time with a friend. The menu names help organize those choices: appetizers are brief activities such as making tea; entrées take longer, such as a hobby; sides accompany something else, such as music while working. Desserts, including scrolling, can absorb more time than intended, while specials are occasional plans such as a concert. Interests and available energy shape the entries.
UBC Science · 2025Choose for the break you have. A song, a short walk or petting an animal can provide a brief change of activity. When the purpose is a work break, an optional timer can mark when to return; the menu itself is not the work schedule.
Mayo Clinic · 202502
Potential benefits
Less deciding in the moment. Having appealing options written down may make choosing a break easier when inventing an activity feels like another task.
UBC Science · 2025A change of pace when work feels stuck. An enjoyable pause may make returning to a difficult task feel more approachable. This is the aim described in the guidance, not a guaranteed result.
Mayo Clinic · 202503
Good to know
Keep the list optional. There is no need to finish every category or copy someone else's hobbies. A menu offers choices; turning every entry into an obligation changes its purpose.
UBC Science · 2025The name is not a dopamine test or reset. The list cannot tell you whether you have a chemical deficiency. Dopamine helps with reward and motivation, but avoiding enjoyable activities does not replenish an emptied supply. A menu is not a way to reset dopamine.
Harvard Health · 202004
From community discussion
Choosing something enjoyable in an ordinary day
Making use of an unexpected free hour. A parent in r/adhdwomen said rare time alone could disappear into indecision and scrolling. Their menu helped them pick an activity they already loved. The same poster also described days when they returned to scrolling; the list was reusable, not a perfect routine.
Community · Reddit/r/adhdwomenSmall menus take several forms. Accounts describe easy, medium and stretch columns with roughly 3–7 choices each, or just six lines: three easy and three medium. Some spent 10–20 minutes on a first draft. Tea, a shower, a walk and texting a friend appear as examples; these are personal formats, not required amounts.
CommunityEnjoyment can be online or off. Commenters named pets, cooking and singing alongside Duolingo lessons and helpful Reddit replies. Another described enjoying a Reddit streak while regretting being awake on the phone after midnight. Their accounts distinguish a chosen pleasure from time spent online that they later wished they had used differently.
Community · Reddit/r/adhdwomenA small pleasure sometimes helped with the next step. People describe feeling tired and restless after a long scroll, then finding that making tea made another activity feel possible. Others reported less back-and-forth between the phone and their list.
CommunityMaking options visible and usable
Visibility matters more than buying a template. Accounts mention fridge or desk paper, a notes app, and a lock-screen photo; a three-line phone list was one backup when paper disappeared. Some left scrolling off the menu or kept it as a limited fallback. Others decorated a file they never reopened.
CommunityOffice options need to fit the actual office. A desk worker said outdoor walks were unavailable and podcasts had become background noise. A reply suggested a paper crossword, drawing or looking through an art book; that commenter said a five-minute break before work sometimes helped. The original poster did not report trying those suggestions.
Community · Reddit/r/adhdwomenHaving hobby materials ready can make a choice usable. An International Bipolar Foundation blogger kept a complete cross-stitch kit in a bag inside their backpack, ready for spare moments. This was their personal adaptation of the How to ADHD menu discussed with Eric Tivers: reduce the setup between seeing an option and doing it.
Community · International Bipolar Foundation blogKeeping the menu flexible
A menu can start to feel like rules. One poster enjoyed designing a restaurant-style menu with numerical targets, then found those targets made it unappealing to follow. A different commenter said they made a menu and forgot it existed.
Community · Reddit/r/adhdwomenTimers and tiny starts are optional additions. Some accounts use a 10–25-minute timer for one activity. Others include a two-minute start, such as opening a document or putting on shoes, or a booked body-doubling call with someone present while work begins. People use these additions for breaks or getting started; none is required for leisure.
CommunityChanging a few entries can be enough. Accounts describe noticing after a few days or a week which choices were enjoyable. A move, job change or season could prompt replacements; some kept one card for a year and changed only a couple of lines. They tracked what they used, not a dopamine score.
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Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) ↗
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- What is ADHD?, last reviewed August 2026
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- NIMH defines ADHD as a clinical pattern across settings and names medication and psychosocial interventions as standard treatments.
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- The page does not discuss body doubling. Using a coworking session does not confirm or rule out ADHD.
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- NIMH says psychotherapy is care from a licensed mental health professional, delivered one to one or in a group.
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How to Give Your Brain the Stimulation It Needs ↗
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- How to ADHD published the dopa-menu video with Eric Tivers on May 26, 2020.
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- Supports naming, creator attribution and date only; no neurotransmitter or treatment claim verified.
What’s on your Dopamine Menu? ↗
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- Different restaurant-style categories, pets, cooking, crafts, walks, helpful Reddit participation and Duolingo appear; small starting steps and access vary.
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- A dopamine menu is a written list of activities someone can choose from when they want a break or a way to start something.
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- A prepared list gives people alternatives when scrolling becomes the default. The useful distinction is between a small activity they can actually start and a long aspirational list that creates another decision.
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- How to ADHD introduced a dopa-menu with Eric Tivers in a 2020 video, before later social-media adaptations. [creator context]
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- Easy/medium/stretch lists and restaurant-style categories such as appetizers, mains and sides both appear in accounts. [community]
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- A fridge list or accessible digital note can hold the options. [community]
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- An elaborate list can become another task to maintain. A few activities someone actually enjoys may be more usable than a decorated menu they never reopen.
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- The job: a written list of real rest and real starts so the phone is not the only menu. [community]
- Where the name comes from: How to ADHD introduced a “dopa-menu” with Eric Tivers in a 2020 video; later social posts and ADHD forums share their own versions. [community]
- Easy / medium / stretch: tea and a shower; a walk or a tidy; open the doc or text a friend. [community]
- Fake rest: people say an hour of phone does not feel like rest when they stand up. [community]
- The fade: a Sunday spent designing a Canva menu they never open on Monday. [community]
- Not a diagnosis card: the practical object is a visible list of appealing activities. Using one does not establish ADHD or measure dopamine. [community]
- Pick, don’t redesign: stalling is when they add stickers instead of taking tea. [community]
- Named voices and rooms: How to ADHD, Eric Tivers, r/ADHD, r/adhdwomen and discussion about alternatives to unwanted scrolling. [community]
- Body doubling often sits on the stretch column as a booked start, not as a personality. [community]
- how People Run It
- Make one visible list on paper or in a notes app. Some use easy/medium/stretch; others use restaurant-style categories. [community]
- Easy: things that take almost no start energy — tea, window, stretch, pet, wash a face. [community]
- Medium: a short walk, a shower and clothes, ten minutes on one surface, a real snack. [community]
- Stretch: open the ugly doc, book a body-double, leave the house, text a human. [community]
- When they stall, pick one item from the easiest column that still feels real. [community]
- Put the paper where the phone usually wins — fridge, desk, lock screen as a photo of the paper. [community]
- Use beats repeated redesign: a plain list or a decorative one can work if it stays easy to find and choose from. [community]
- Notice after a week which items actually restored them and which were still fake rest. [community]
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- Layout examples: easy/medium/stretch columns, or appetizers, main activities, sides and desserts. One usable choice matters more than completing every category. [community]
- Items: often 3–7 per column, not a novel. [community]
- Write time: 10–20 minutes once, then they use it. [community]
- Pick time: one item, sometimes with a 10–25 minute timer. [community]
- Updating it: change options when interests, energy or access change; repeated redesign can become the activity instead. [community]
- Cost: paper. A printed Canva sheet is optional and risky. [community]
- Phone rule people name: the scroll is off the menu or in a tiny last-resort box. [community]
- how People Keep It
- Small version: six ugly lines on a card, three easy and three medium. [community]
- First week: pick from the paper before the pocket. [community]
- They track: which items they actually did, not a dopamine score. [community]
- It fades when: they design the menu instead of using it. [community]
- Backup: a three-line lock-screen list if the fridge paper vanishes. [community]
- Rebuild only when life changed — a move, a new job, winter. [community]
- how It Feels
- Staring at the phone hungry for rest: wired and still tired. [community]
- Picking tea from the easy column: small, almost insulting, then the next item is possible. [community]
- After a stretch item: spent in a real way, not the hollow scroll hangover. [community]
- Canva Sunday: productive-feeling, then Monday has no menu in the hand. [community]
- A kept paper week: fewer arguments with the pocket. [community]
- If every item is a chore: they rewrote a to-do list and called it rest. [community]
- how Long People Run It
- A reusable object for stall seasons, not a 30-day challenge with a new aesthetic. [community]
- They rewrite when the old items went stale or the season changed. [community]
- Some people keep one card for a year and only swap two lines. [community]
- TikTok waves bring new people in; the paper is what remains after the trend. [community]
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- What a dopamine menu is: It is a visible list of activities someone expects to enjoy or find engaging, made before a stuck or bored moment. How to ADHD published a “dopa-menu” video with Eric Tivers in May 2020; later TikTok and forum waves spread adaptations. Restaurant-style categories and easy/medium/stretch lists both appear. The name is shorthand, not a test of dopamine levels or a diagnosis. The practical purpose is to have choices available when opening the phone has become the automatic option. A fridge list, notes app or lock-screen image can all hold those choices. [community]
- Easy, medium and stretch examples: Easy options include tea, opening a window, floor stretching, petting a dog, washing the face or two minutes on a balcony. Medium options include a short walk, a shower and clean shirt, ten minutes on one surface or a snack. Stretch options can be small starts: opening a difficult document, booking body doubling, leaving for one errand or texting someone honestly. If every line is an obligation, the list has become a renamed to-do list rather than a set of appealing alternatives. [community]
- What belongs on it varies: The r/adhdwomen thread includes pets, cooking, crafts, walks and screen activities such as Duolingo or writing a helpful Reddit comment. Some people want an alternative to endless feeds; others enjoy a chosen game, show or conversation. A screen is not automatically failed rest. A useful distinction is whether the activity has an end and leaves someone feeling the way they hoped, rather than whether it looks productive. The phone-limits card covers barriers to unwanted checking; this list supplies options when that barrier works. [community]
- When making the menu takes over: Fonts, templates and color categories can consume the time someone meant to spend enjoying an activity. A visible index card is one low-effort option; a graphic can also help if it makes the list appealing and easy to find. There is no established rule that ugly paper lasts longer, or that a monthly redesign is acceptable but a weekly one is not. People can change an unusable option without rebuilding the whole sheet. The useful result is a list they actually choose from. [community]
- Trying a choice is different from designing the page: Accounts describe ten to twenty minutes making a first list, then choosing one item during a stuck moment. A ten- or twenty-five-minute timer may keep a medium activity bounded. A two-minute start might mean opening a document, putting on shoes or joining a booked body-doubling call, with another person present while work begins. A few later notes can distinguish activities that felt restorative from unwanted chores. The list can then change without a complete new productivity system. [community]
- Make availability visible: The easy/medium/stretch version uses roughly three to seven options per column; restaurant-style categories organize the choices differently. A tea break, kitchen timer and scheduled body-double session require different effort and availability. Paper on a fridge, a notes app and a lock-screen photograph have different conveniences; no purchased template is necessary. A move, season, job change or different energy level can make an option worth replacing. [community]
- The name does not establish a medical effect: This informal list is not a dopamine test, medication adjustment or demonstration that colors regulate a nervous system. Chosen screen activities can still be enjoyable, as the discussion above describes. If starting anything remains difficult for days, a more attractive PDF may not address the underlying need for support. The practical result is having an available choice, not proving productivity or a permanent change in mood. [community]
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- A pretty graphic is not the practice. Scrolling to design the menu is the fade. [community]
- A chore list wearing rest language still feels like a boss. [community]
- This is not a diagnosis and not a medication plan. [community]
- Phone-as-only-menu is the hole the paper is trying to name. [community]
- If they cannot start anything for days, real care sits next door — not a cuter PDF. [community]
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- Why talk is loud: r/ADHD, r/adhdwomen, and TikTok made dopamine menu a 2024–26 object. [community]
- Not a diagnosis card: the practice is the list, even though ADHD forums named it. [community]
- Soft voices: ADHD creators, occupational-therapy-adjacent list talk, and anti-scroll rest threads. [community]
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- Write three columns once on paper or a notes app they will actually see. [community]
- Beautifying the menu all evening is the fade. Ugly ink is the kept version. [community]
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- Columns: three — easy, medium, stretch (sometimes hard). [community]
- Redesign cadence: monthly at most; weekly redesign is the leak. [community]
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- The list as an ADHD-forum object: r/ADHD, r/adhdwomen, and a long TikTok wave in 2024 through 2026 made dopamine menu a named object, not a vague hope to rest better. The common picture is a paper list in three columns — easy, medium, stretch — so when the brain stalls the phone is not the only menu in the room. People discuss it as a practice they can point at, the same way they point at body doubling or a visual timer, without turning this card into a diagnosis encyclopedia. The job is written choices for real rest and real starts; the forum that named it is context, not a test someone has to pass to use a fridge list. Occupational-therapy-adjacent list talk and anti-scroll rest threads borrowed the same three-column shape because stalling is not only one community’s problem. Talk is loud because the phone already behaves like a menu, and people wanted a competing menu that leaves them less hollow. [community]
- Easy, medium, and stretch in actual kitchens: Easy items are almost insulting on purpose: tea, open a window, stretch on the floor, pet the dog, wash a face, stand on the balcony for two minutes. Medium items ask for a little more start: a short walk, a shower and clean shirt, ten minutes on one surface, a real snack that is not only coffee. Stretch items are starts, not punishments: open the ugly document, book a body-double slot, leave the house for one errand, text a human one honest line. Keepers write three to seven lines per column so choosing does not become a second research project with color keys and icons. They put the paper on the fridge or the desk, or they photograph the ugly card onto a lock screen so the pocket opens onto their own list first. If every line is a chore they rewrote a to-do list and called it rest, which is why the easy column has to stay easy. [community]
- Fake rest and the phone that pretends to be off-duty: People say an hour of phone can feel like rest while they are in it and like nothing when they stand up, which is the fake-rest sentence that travels. The scroll offers infinite easy items with no end, which is why a written easy column has ends: tea ends, a window ends, a stretch ends. Phone-limits is the fence on this map; the menu is what they pick instead of standing in the kitchen arguing with a black glass rectangle. Some people keep a tiny last-resort phone box on the paper so they are honest, then notice it never restores them and shrink it. Games, news, and group chats all get named as fake rest when the body is still buzzing and the room is still loud. The point in community language is not moral purity about screens; it is that the pocket was the only menu and it was a bad restaurant. [community]
- The pretty Canva menu is the fade: Sunday disappears into fonts, pastel columns, and a Pinterest search for dopamine menu printable, and Monday the file is in Downloads unseen. TikTok made the object famous by making it beautiful, which is also how the practice dies: they designed a poster instead of taking a shower. Ugly ink on an index card outlasts the graphic because there is nothing left to fiddle with once the words exist. People who reprint the menu every weekend are still stalling; redesign cadence in keep talk is monthly at most, or when life actually changed. A lock-screen photo of the ugly card is a compromise that still points at use, not at another hour of Canva layers. This map will not rank templates; it will say the fade has a look, and the look is pretty. r/adhdwomen commenters keep posting stained fridge cards next to the unused pastel PDFs, and the stained ones are the ones still in play. [community]
- First week of picking from paper: They spend ten to twenty minutes writing the three columns once, then the real week is the pick, not the stationery. First stall, they still open the phone; second stall, they remember the fridge and feel silly choosing tea; third stall, tea is already a path. A ten or twenty-five minute visual timer on a medium item stops the menu from becoming a new place to freeze. Two-minute start is how stretch items begin: open the doc, put on shoes, send the Focusmate join link, then they can stop if they want. Journal notes at the end of a few days show which items restored them and which were chores in costume, and they swap two lines. By Friday the paper is either stained and used or still pristine, and pristine is not a compliment on this card. People who used the easy column three days in a row often report the stretch column got less mythical by Thursday. [community]
- Amounts, rooms, and what a kept card looks like: Three columns and three to seven items each is the amount picture; a novel-length menu is how choosing dies. Write time is a single short sit; pick time is one item, sometimes timed, not a tour of every column for completeness points. r/ADHD and r/adhdwomen still generate the examples, while TikTok recycles the same pastel three-column shot every few months. Cost is paper; printed graphics are optional and risky because they invite another design pass when the real job was tea. Some people keep one card for a year and only swap winter walks for summer porch sits; others rebuild after a move or a new job. The kept object looks boring in photographs, which is why it survives after the trend wave moves on. Focusmate slots and a kitchen timer show up as amounts on the same card as tea, which is how the stretch column stays reachable. [community]
- Body doubling, timers, and the other siblings: Body-doubling often lives on the stretch column as a booked start: someone else is on the call so the document actually opens. Two-minute-start is the ignition for any line that still feels like a mountain even after they pointed at it with a finger. Visual-timer is how a medium item stays a medium item instead of a freeze or a three-hour hyperfocus they did not choose. Phone-limits is the house rule that makes the paper menu visible; without a fence the pocket wins before they reach the fridge. Journal is the review, not the menu: what actually restored them, what was fake rest, what should come off the card next month. Those siblings stay next door so the dopamine menu does not have to be a whole operating system with merch. A body-double Thursday and a two-minute open of the same doc are how the stretch column stops being a poster. [community]
- What this card refuses to become: It will not diagnose anyone, titrate a medication, or treat a forum name as a test someone must pass to write tea on an index card. It will not sell a printable pack, a dopamine coach, or a color psychology lecture about which pastel restores a nervous system. It will not turn the stretch column into a shame list of gym, networking, and a side hustle they already cannot start. It will not pretend the phone is evil; it will only map the sentence people keep repeating, that the scroll was fake rest. If they cannot start anything for days, a cuter PDF is not the next object — care and smaller cards like two-minute-start sit closer. Success is a stained card with a tea ring, one item picked, and a pocket that lost the argument once. The phone can stay in the house; it just stops being the only menu when the fridge paper is already in the hand. [community]
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- A pretty graphic is not the practice. Scrolling to design the menu is the fade.
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- A dopamine menu is a written list of activities someone can choose from when they want a break or a way to start something.
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- A prepared list gives people alternatives when scrolling becomes the default. The useful distinction is between a small activity they can actually start and a long aspirational list that creates another decision.
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- The moving part is a list made before the stuck moment, so choosing is not done at the same time as starting. In the May 26, 2020 How to ADHD video, Jessica McCabe builds what she and ADHD coach Eric Tivers call a dopa-menu. Tivers's point on that recording is to separate planning from the moment of boredom, the way a grocery list is written before shopping hungry.
- Her categories are specific. Appetizers are quick and do not swallow the hour. Entrees have felt alive. Sides, such as music, make another activity easier to stay with. Desserts are easy go-tos that do not really satisfy, fine sometimes and not as the whole menu. Specials are occasional. Drop anything that is not realistic now. A chore no one would choose is a to-do item, not a menu item.
- The name is shorthand from that video. It is not a lab test of dopamine and not a diagnosis. NIMH, last reviewed August 2026, defines ADHD by patterns of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity that show up across settings and interfere with life. A written list does not measure a brain chemical and does not establish that disorder.
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- Design the list from two piles: activities that have actually felt engaging, and the automatic go-tos that leave a flat or wired feeling afterward. Use the video's restaurant categories, or a simpler easy, medium, and stretch layout if that sheet will be used. The 2020 recording uses appetizers, entrees, sides, desserts, and specials. Later personal versions use other headings. One visible list is the practice.
- Cross off what cannot be done this week. McCabe's test is whether the item would actually be ordered and can actually be made. Put the guitar on a stand, the shoes by the door, or the paint where the first stroke is easy. For a dessert that takes over, add a step, such as moving the charger off the couch. Fewer steps for the wanted item. More steps for the default scroll.
- Put the list where the phone usually wins: a fridge, a desk, or a photo of the paper on the lock screen. McCabe also posted copies in more than one room. When the stall hits, pick one item that can start in the current room. A timer of a few minutes can edge an appetizer. Do not redesign the sheet instead of using it.
- After several uses, notice which lines were actually chosen and which were decoration. Change the list when the season or the energy changes. If nothing on it feels worth doing, the May 26, 2020 video has Tivers say to call a doctor, because that can be depression rather than boredom.
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- The list is built in advance because the hard moment is a bad time to invent options. That is the mechanism Tivers states on the recording. A pretty graphic that is never in the hand does not do that job. A chore list written in rest language still feels like a boss. The community notes describe both the small pick and the unused design.
- NIMH's 2024 depression publication lists loss of interest or pleasure, fatigue, and trouble with daily activities among depression symptoms. Diagnosis requires symptoms most of the day, nearly every day, for at least two weeks, including low mood or loss of interest. A menu cannot make that determination. Standard ADHD care, on the NIMH page reviewed August 2026, is medication and psychosocial treatment, not a category chart.
- This is the wrong tool when days pass with no start and no pleasure, or when eating, sleep, or safety are collapsing. Call or text 988 in the United States for a mental-health crisis, and call 911 for immediate danger. A cuter PDF is not that care.
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- Not a diagnosis card: the practical object is a visible list of appealing activities. Using one does not establish ADHD or measure dopamine. [community]
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- What a dopamine menu is: It is a visible list of activities someone expects to enjoy or find engaging, made before a stuck or bored moment. How to ADHD published a “dopa-menu” video with Eric Tivers in May 2020; later TikTok and forum waves spread adaptations. Restaurant-style categories and easy/medium/stretch lists both appear. The name is shorthand, not a test of dopamine levels or a diagnosis. The practical purpose is to have choices available when opening the phone has become the automatic option. A fridge list, notes app or lock-screen image can all hold those choices. [community]
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- What belongs on it varies: The r/adhdwomen thread includes pets, cooking, crafts, walks and screen activities such as Duolingo or writing a helpful Reddit comment. Some people want an alternative to endless feeds; others enjoy a chosen game, show or conversation. A screen is not automatically failed rest. A useful distinction is whether the activity has an end and leaves someone feeling the way they hoped, rather than whether it looks productive. The phone-limits card covers barriers to unwanted checking; this list supplies options when that barrier works. [community]
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- Make availability visible: The easy/medium/stretch version uses roughly three to seven options per column; restaurant-style categories organize the choices differently. A tea break, kitchen timer and scheduled body-double session require different effort and availability. Paper on a fridge, a notes app and a lock-screen photograph have different conveniences; no purchased template is necessary. A move, season, job change or different energy level can make an option worth replacing. [community]
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