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Genesis 20:3 Explained in Context
Use this verse as a doorway into the larger passage—not as an isolated saying.
Verse 3. 3But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night, and said to him, Behold, thou art but a dead man, for the woman which thou hast taken; for she is a man’s wife.
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Quick Meaning
God confronts Abimelech in a night dream, announces mortal danger because he has taken a married woman, and restores the truth Abraham concealed. The warning is severe, but the following verses show it is conditional and that no sexual contact has occurred.
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This verse is one part of that explanation in Genesis 20:1–18. The complete section carries the connected meaning and how it should shape life.
Read It With
- Genesis 20:1–18
Read verses 3–7. Verse 3 gives the charge and warning; verses 4–5 present Abimelech's defense; verse 6 affirms integrity and divine restraint; verse 7 commands restoration and explains how life will follow. Reading verse 3 alone could make the warning sound like a final sentence without response.
Why This Verse Appears Here
God's dream restores the concealed marital truth and stops the royal taking from advancing to sexual contact.
Read Genesis 20:3–7 together
Why these verses belong together: God's warning, Abimelech's integrity appeal, divine restraint, restoration command, prophetic prayer, and conditional life form one dream dialogue.
Verse 3. 3 But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night, and said to him, Behold, thou art but a dead man, for the woman which thou hast taken; for she is a man’s wife.
Verse 4. 4 But Abimelech had not come near her: and he said, Lord, wilt thou slay also a righteous nation?
Verse 5. 5 Said he not unto me, She is my sister? and she, even she herself said, He is my brother: in the integrity of my heart and innocency of my hands have I done this.
Verse 6. 6 And God said unto him in a dream, Yea, I know that thou didst this in the integrity of thy heart; for I also withheld thee from sinning against me: therefore suffered I thee not to touch her.
Verse 7. 7 Now therefore restore the man his wife; for he is a prophet, and he shall pray for thee, and thou shalt live: and if thou restore her not, know thou that thou shalt surely die, thou, and all that are thine.
Follow the Context
- Abraham travels into the Negev, settles between Kadesh and Shur, and sojourns in Gerar (20:1).
- Abraham says of Sarah his wife, 'She is my sister,' and Abimelech sends for and takes Sarah (20:2).
- God comes to Abimelech in a night dream, identifies Sarah as a married woman, and warns him of death (20:3).
- Abimelech, who has not approached Sarah, appeals to a righteous nation, Abraham's and Sarah's statements, integrity of heart, and innocence of hands (20:4–5).
- God affirms Abimelech's integrity regarding the deception, says that divine restraint prevented him from sinning and touching Sarah, and commands him to restore the prophet's wife so Abraham may pray and he may live (20:6–7).
- Abimelech rises early, tells his servants, and the household fears greatly; he summons and rebukes Abraham for bringing a great sin on the kingdom and doing what should not be done (20:8–10).
- Abraham explains his assumption that the place lacked fear of God, his fear of being killed, Sarah's paternal half-sister relationship, and the standing sister strategy he asked Sarah to use wherever they traveled (20:11–13).
- Abimelech gives Abraham livestock and enslaved male and female servants, restores Sarah, offers land, and announces a thousand-silver gift whose 'covering of eyes' wording is difficult (20:14–16).
- Abraham prays; God heals Abimelech, his wife, and his female servants, and the narrator explains that the LORD had completely closed every womb because of Sarah, Abraham's wife (20:17–18).
Phrase-by-Phrase Explanation
“God came ... in a dream”
In plain language: God communicates to Abimelech during the night.
A foreign ruler receives the decisive revelation.
Why it matters: Abraham's community does not monopolize access to moral warning.
How certain? very strong“thou art but a dead man”
In plain language: You are under a death warning.
The taking creates a mortal crisis requiring restitution.
Why it matters: Verse 7 shows the warning's conditional path to life.
How certain? very strong“a man's wife”
In plain language: Sarah is already married.
God names the concealed status that controls the ethics.
Why it matters: The problem is not Sarah's attractiveness but violation of a real marriage.
How certain? very strongWhat This Verse Is Not Saying
The death warning does not prove that Abimelech knowingly committed adultery or had sexual intercourse with Sarah.
God's confrontation does not make the deception irrelevant; the dream supplies truth Abimelech lacked.
This dream does not promise that every hidden danger will be disclosed supernaturally before harm occurs.
What Remains True
God's warning exposes hidden relationships and calls the person with power to stop, restore, and respond before threatened harm becomes irreversible.
How It Can Shape Life
- When credible information reveals that a relationship, consent condition, or legal status was concealed, pause the process, protect the affected person, verify the facts, and restore what was wrongly taken.
Teach It Back
Explain Genesis 20:3's contribution to Genesis 20:1–18. Include why the nearby verses are required, what the verse clearly says, and one conclusion it does not justify.
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Continue in Context
Read the complete section for the connected explanation and how it should shape life. This verse is a doorway into that passage, not a saying that stands alone.
Read Genesis 20:1–18 — God Protects Sarah in GerarSources used for this Verse Lens
How certain is this explanation? very strong
These are the sources used directly for this lens. Language, grammar, disagreements, and the complete source shelf remain attached to the full thought-unit research record.
Biblical text
King James (Authorized) Version — eng-kjv2006
eBible.org and CrossWire Bible Society
USFM archive eng-kjv2006_usfm.zip; source files dated 2026-08-19; downloaded 2026-08-24; archive SHA-256 aec1b3b26c622fd3d963d2bbac963016b9513246ffbfa20da00bb100372ea007; normalized corpus SHA-256 09aef51d90488aa7b9722b3fd9a93f4b25f6bf2064c5fd798fb39673c300ddf2.
Supports: Displayed wording, boundary, repeated wife-sister pattern, explicit non-contact, rebuke, restoration, prayer, healing, promise placement, and later kinship law.
Exact location: Genesis 20:1–18 in the pinned eng-kjv2006 source; compared with Genesis 12:10–20; 18:1–33; 21:1–7; 26:1–11; Leviticus 18:9, 11; 20:17
Open source ↗hebrew text morphology and lemma data
Open Scriptures Hebrew Bible — Genesis
Open Scriptures Hebrew Bible Project
Open Scriptures, Version 2.2 released 2021; repository inspected 2026
Supports: Marriage language, integrity, innocence, divine restraint, non-contact, prophet and prayer, fear, loyal-kindness request, plural wandering verb, difficult silver phrase, healing, giving birth, and emphatic womb closure.
Exact location: Open Scriptures Hebrew Bible, wlc/Gen.xml, Genesis 20:1–18; lemmas and morphology for ishah, be'ulat ba'al, tom-levav, niqyon kappayim, chasakh, naga, navi, palal, yare, hesed, ta'ah, kesut einayim, yakach, rapha, yalad, atsar, and rechem
Open source ↗Translation and textual notes
NET Bible — Genesis with translators' notes
Biblical Studies Press
Biblical Studies Press, Digital edition accessed 2026
Supports: Prophet and intercession syntax, emphatic death warning, plural verb, silver weight, difficult covering-of-eyes idiom, vindication, emphatic womb closure, and proposed timeline.
Exact location: NET Bible, Genesis 20:1–18 and translator notes, especially 20:7, 13, 16–18
Open NET Genesis 20 ↗peer reviewed open canonical and prophetic study
Genesis 20: A Literary Template for the Prophetic Tradition
R. Gallaher Branch
In die Skriflig / In Luce Verbi 38.2, 2004
Supports: First prophet title, intercession, revelation to an outsider, correction of prophetic character, public consequences, prayer, healing, and proposed later prophetic patterns.
Exact location: In die Skriflig 38.2, pages 217–234, especially pages 217–230
Open source ↗