Read the passage and its setting
Proverbs 19:13–16, King James Version
Italic words were supplied in the English translation for clarity.
Proverbs 19:13–16
Family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care — A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the…
The Main Point
opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.”
What Is Happening Here?
Proverbs 19:13–16 opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife are a…” and closes with “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul; but he that despiseth his….” Those endpoints show the unit's movement from opening claim to reviewed close.
Context That Shapes This Passage
How does this passage relate?
Proverbs 19:13–16In “Family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care — A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the…,” the complete unit develops this passage-specific claim: opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.”
Why this relationship fits: The reviewed reasoning path begins, “Opening (19:13): the unit opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”.” and concludes, “Close (19:16): the unit uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”, creating the next supported pause.”
How does this passage relate?
Proverbs 19:13–16Proverbs 19:13–16 is the reviewed unit “Family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care — A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the….” Its parallel lines, repeated address, comparison, or local cluster controls how each verse contributes without borrowing a neighboring unit's subject.
Why this relationship fits: The unit opens “A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife are a…” and closes “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul; but he that despiseth his….”
Where does this sit in the whole book?
Proverbs as a wholeProverbs 19:13–16 belongs to “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.” Compact parallel sayings train judgment about speech, work, wealth, poverty, family, friendship, anger, justice, rulers, planning, and worship. Most describe normal moral patterns rather than guaranteed outcomes. This unit contributes family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD through its own received wording and form.
Why this relationship fits: The received sequence places Proverbs 19:13–16 inside Proverbs 10:1–22:16; this unit opens “A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife are a…” and closes “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul; but he that despiseth his….” The unit's reviewed main point is: opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.”
Follow the Wisdom Collection
See why this section appears here and how the author's wisdom movement leads to its meaning.
Why Is This Passage Here?
Proverbs 19:13–16 forms a reviewed local cluster inside “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.” Its lines concentrate on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD, while each sentence proverb retains its own force and the neighboring database unit does not supply its meaning.
Follow the Saying or Discourse
Opening (19:13): the unit opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”.
Development (19:13–16): adjacent lines test family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD through parallelism, contrast, motive, image, or consequence.
Close (19:16): the unit uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”, creating the next supported pause.
Why This Interpretation Fits
Exact verse-level work
Every line in Proverbs 19:13–16 retains its own Verse Lens role and does not borrow a neighboring verse's claim.
Collection context
The superscription and placement identify this unit inside “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection”: Compact parallel sayings train judgment about speech, work, wealth, poverty, family, friendship, anger, justice, rulers, planning, and worship. Most describe normal moral patterns rather than guaranteed outcomes.
Proverbial proportion
The unit's instruction and observations concern family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD; they describe moral direction without explaining every exceptional outcome.
Understand the Meaning and Its Boundaries
Clarify the words that matter and keep the conclusion no broader than the passage allows.
What the Passage Is Not Saying
Reading Proverbs 19:13–16 as edited wisdom rather than a detached formula rules out these uses:
The saying does not command unconditional obedience to abuse, erase adult agency, idealize one household form, or give relatives ownership over another person.
The saying does not demean women, blame targets of exploitation, excuse sexual coercion, impose a universal domestic role, or make male desire the measure of a woman's worth.
The saying does not transfer divine authority to a parent, pastor, ruler, spouse, nation, or political movement, and it does not authorize fear-based coercion.
The unit does not turn a normal wisdom pattern into a universal promise, a complete causal explanation of suffering, or a mandate broader than Proverbs 19:13–16.
Context check: Within first solomonic sentence-saying collection, opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
What Remains True Today
Family relationships can transmit wisdom and responsibility, but their authority remains accountable to truth, safety, and justice. The gendered sayings address fidelity, desire, agency, speech, and household life within an androcentric ancient setting; they must not be generalized into contempt for women. Wisdom begins with reverent accountability to the LORD and refuses to make human insight self-sufficient. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
Respond and Remember
Let the meaning shape life carefully, then practice explaining the section in context.
How This Should Shape Us
Why these applications follow
Proverbs 19:13–16 applies family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD through the people, action, comparison, and consequence named in its complete movement.
Within first solomonic sentence-saying collection, opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Family relationships can transmit wisdom and responsibility, but their authority remains accountable to truth, safety, and justice. The gendered sayings address fidelity, desire, agency, speech, and household life within an androcentric ancient setting; they must not be generalized into contempt for women. Wisdom begins with reverent accountability to the LORD and refuses to make human insight self-sufficient. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
How does the application follow proportionately?
Practice mutual listening, clear expectations, dependable care, and boundaries that protect every member's dignity and safety. Practice consent, mutual fidelity, truthful boundaries, economic respect, and accountability for the person who holds greater social power. Bring the decision under truthful worship, moral accountability, and correction rather than using religious language to shield preference or power. In 19:13–16, let the concrete wording “A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and…” keep that response tied to the people, action, comparison, or consequence actually named.
Teach It Back
Explain Proverbs 19:13–16 in your own words. Identify its form and collection, trace one line from role through contextual meaning and enduring truth to application, name one uncertainty, and reject one misuse explicitly.
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Go Deeper
The main explanation above stands on its own. Open these optional sections for fuller language, history, disagreements, and source locations.
Read it sentence by sentenceEach line inside the larger movement
Exact verse-level work
Every line in Proverbs 19:13–16 retains its own Verse Lens role and does not borrow a neighboring verse's claim.
Collection context
The superscription and placement identify this unit inside “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection”: Compact parallel sayings train judgment about speech, work, wealth, poverty, family, friendship, anger, justice, rulers, planning, and worship. Most describe normal moral patterns rather than guaranteed outcomes.
Proverbial proportion
The unit's instruction and observations concern family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD; they describe moral direction without explaining every exceptional outcome.
Original-language wording and grammarTechnical detail appears only where it helps
No individual Hebrew or KJV expression in Proverbs 19:13–16 needs a separate lexical card beyond the complete saying or discourse explanation.
What the first readers would have understoodRelevant history and culture
Edited wisdom and social setting
This unit belongs to first solomonic sentence-saying collection. Aitken's printed pages 405-422 and the book-specific sources identify family, community, agricultural, commercial, scribal, court, and royal settings as relevant possibilities without proving one setting for every saying.
How certain? probableWhy translations sometimes differMaterial translation choices
No older-English term in this unit requires a separate reader note after reading the complete KJV line in context.
Earlier Scripture and inherited backgroundSupported quotations, allusions, and inherited ideas
Israelite wisdom setting
The unit's first horizon is Israel's wisdom collection under fear of the LORD. Torah-shaped justice, creation, household teaching, royal responsibility, and community life may inform the language, but no cross-reference overrides this unit's own parallelism and collection role.
How certain? probableHow this connects with the rest of ScriptureThe passage's own meaning remains primary
Responsible canonical location
Within the received book, Compact parallel sayings train judgment about speech, work, wealth, poverty, family, friendship, anger, justice, rulers, planning, and worship. Most describe normal moral patterns rather than guaranteed outcomes. This local unit is read through that movement before broader canonical comparison.
How certain? probableTextual variantsManuscript differences only when they affect meaning
Material textual or translation question
The complete NET notes attached to Proverbs 19:13–16 were inspected alongside MorphHB. No unreviewed alternative replaces the pinned KJV; any verse whose wording materially affects interpretation carries an expanded Lens and visible uncertainty rather than a silent emendation.
How certain? probableWhere careful interpreters disagreeThe strongest options and their difficulties
Where do careful readers disagree?
Best judgment: Interpreters disagree over how much literary meaning adjacent sentence sayings gain from small clusters. This package treats Proverbs 19:13–16 as a useful local cluster while preserving each saying's independent force and marking the boundary as revisable.
How certain? probableTheology that emerges from this passageConclusions drawn after reading the complete section
Theological contribution
The unit places practical wisdom under a moral order answerable to the LORD: Family relationships can transmit wisdom and responsibility, but their authority remains accountable to truth, safety, and justice. The gendered sayings address fidelity, desire, agency, speech, and household life within an androcentric ancient setting; they must not be generalized into contempt for women. Wisdom begins with reverent accountability to the LORD and refuses to make human insight self-sufficient.
How certain? strongTheological contribution
Within First Solomonic sentence-saying collection, opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.”
How certain? strongCommon ways this passage gets misusedFair explanation, context check, and stronger reading
The saying does not command unconditional obedience to abuse, erase adult agency, idealize one household form, or give relatives ownership over another person.
A compact saying is easy to detach and universalize.
Within first solomonic sentence-saying collection, opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Family relationships can transmit wisdom and responsibility, but their authority remains accountable to truth, safety, and justice. The gendered sayings address fidelity, desire, agency, speech, and household life within an androcentric ancient setting; they must not be generalized into contempt for women. Wisdom begins with reverent accountability to the LORD and refuses to make human insight self-sufficient. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.”
The saying does not demean women, blame targets of exploitation, excuse sexual coercion, impose a universal domestic role, or make male desire the measure of a woman's worth.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within first solomonic sentence-saying collection, opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Family relationships can transmit wisdom and responsibility, but their authority remains accountable to truth, safety, and justice. The gendered sayings address fidelity, desire, agency, speech, and household life within an androcentric ancient setting; they must not be generalized into contempt for women. Wisdom begins with reverent accountability to the LORD and refuses to make human insight self-sufficient. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.”
The saying does not transfer divine authority to a parent, pastor, ruler, spouse, nation, or political movement, and it does not authorize fear-based coercion.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within first solomonic sentence-saying collection, opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Family relationships can transmit wisdom and responsibility, but their authority remains accountable to truth, safety, and justice. The gendered sayings address fidelity, desire, agency, speech, and household life within an androcentric ancient setting; they must not be generalized into contempt for women. Wisdom begins with reverent accountability to the LORD and refuses to make human insight self-sufficient. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.”
The unit does not turn a normal wisdom pattern into a universal promise, a complete causal explanation of suffering, or a mandate broader than Proverbs 19:13–16.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within first solomonic sentence-saying collection, opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Family relationships can transmit wisdom and responsibility, but their authority remains accountable to truth, safety, and justice. The gendered sayings address fidelity, desire, agency, speech, and household life within an androcentric ancient setting; they must not be generalized into contempt for women. Wisdom begins with reverent accountability to the LORD and refuses to make human insight self-sufficient. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: opens with “A foolish son is the calamity of his father” and develops the line through “and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping”; by 19:16, it uses contrastive parallelism to place “He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul” against “he that despiseth his ways shall die”. Together the unit concentrates on family teaching, responsibility, and mutual care, gendered imagery, sexual fidelity, consent, and household agency, reverent accountability before the LORD within “First Solomonic sentence-saying collection.”
Research trail and exact locationsThe source record behind this section
Supports: Exact displayed KJV words, canonical order, paragraph flags, supplied-word markup, and complete unit coverage.
Proverbs 19:13–16, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 19:13-19:16
Supports: Verse-attached textual, lexical, grammatical, syntactic, parallelism, and older-English controls for the exact range.
NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1136-1140, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 19:13–16
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 19:13–16 and the First Solomonic sentence-saying collection outline
Supports: Abstract-level control for the dispute over individual-saying, small-cluster, and collection context; no uninspected detailed claim.
Weeks, ‘Context in the Sayings Collections,’ Early Israelite Wisdom (2000), official abstract and chapter pp. 20-40; methodological question applied to Proverbs 19:13–16
Supports: Feminist and literary review of Wisdom, Folly, Strange Woman, mothers, wives, women in sentence sayings, and the closing woman of strength.
Hartwell, Wisdom, strange or somewhere in between (Birmingham PhD, 2017), pp. 13-25, 132-171, 172-204, 205-244, and 245-260 as relevant to the gendered figures and sayings in Proverbs 19:13–16
Sources for This Section
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Biblical text
King James (Authorized) Version — eng-kjv2006
eBible.org and CrossWire Bible Society
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Supports: Exact displayed KJV words, canonical order, paragraph flags, supplied-word markup, and complete unit coverage.
Exact location: Proverbs 19:13–16, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Open source ↗hebrew text and morphology
Open Scriptures Hebrew Bible: Proverbs
Open Scriptures
Open Scriptures, release 2.2
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Exact location: Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 19:13-19:16
Open source ↗translation and translator notes
NET Bible: Proverbs with translators' notes
Biblical Studies Press
Biblical Studies Press, 2006
Supports: Verse-attached textual, lexical, grammatical, syntactic, parallelism, and older-English controls for the exact range.
Exact location: NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1136-1140, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 19:13–16
Open source ↗modern critical commentary
Proverbs
K. T. Aitken
Oxford University Press, in The Oxford Bible Commentary, 2001
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Exact location: Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 19:13–16 and the First Solomonic sentence-saying collection outline
Open source ↗scholarly monograph chapter abstract and metadata
Context in the Sayings Collections
Stuart Weeks
Oxford University Press, in Early Israelite Wisdom, 2000
Supports: Abstract-level control for the dispute over individual-saying, small-cluster, and collection context; no uninspected detailed claim.
Exact location: Weeks, ‘Context in the Sayings Collections,’ Early Israelite Wisdom (2000), official abstract and chapter pp. 20-40; methodological question applied to Proverbs 19:13–16
Open source ↗open access doctoral thesis
Wisdom, strange or somewhere in between: in search of a real woman in the Book of Proverbs
Jeanette May Hartwell
University of Birmingham, 2017
Supports: Feminist and literary review of Wisdom, Folly, Strange Woman, mothers, wives, women in sentence sayings, and the closing woman of strength.
Exact location: Hartwell, Wisdom, strange or somewhere in between (Birmingham PhD, 2017), pp. 13-25, 132-171, 172-204, 205-244, and 245-260 as relevant to the gendered figures and sayings in Proverbs 19:13–16
Open source ↗