Read the passage and its setting
Proverbs 23:6–9, King James Version
Italic words were supplied in the English translation for clarity.
Proverbs 23:6–9
The calculating host and speech wasted on a fool
The Main Point
contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.”
What Is Happening Here?
Court appetite, wealth, exploitative hospitality, boundaries, child discipline, envy, parents, truth, sex, alcohol, and addiction-like capture receive extended admonition. In this unit, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.”
What Came Before—and What Comes Next?
Proverbs 23:4–5 (“Wealth, poverty, provision, and economic power — Labour not to be rich: cease from thine own wisdom”) immediately precedes this unit and contributes wealth, poverty, provision, and economic power, work, diligence, provision, and creaturely limits, wisdom, folly, teachability, and moral perception.
Proverbs 23:10–11 (“Justice, truthful judgment, and protection from exploitation — Remove not the old landmark; and enter not into the...”) follows and develops justice, truthful judgment, and protection from exploitation.
Follow the Wisdom Collection
See why this section appears here and how the author's wisdom movement leads to its meaning.
Why Is This Passage Here?
The edited sequence places this unit after Proverbs 23:4–5 so that wealth, poverty, provision, and economic power, work, diligence, provision, and creaturely limits, wisdom, folly, teachability, and moral perception is tested or extended through speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life.
Follow the Saying or Discourse
Opening (23:6): the unit contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”.
Development (23:6–9): adjacent lines test speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life through parallelism, contrast, motive, image, or consequence.
Close (23:9): the unit opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”, creating the next supported pause.
What Is the Author Saying?
Why This Interpretation Fits
Exact verse-level work
Every line in Proverbs 23:6–9 retains its own Verse Lens role and does not borrow a neighboring verse's claim.
Collection context
The superscription and placement identify this unit inside “Sayings of the wise”: Longer admonitions address attention, social power, debt, appetite, wealth, boundaries, vulnerable people, discipline, envy, resilience, witness, and neighbor-love.
Proverbial proportion
The unit's instruction and observations concern speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life; they describe moral direction without explaining every exceptional outcome.
Understand the Meaning and Its Boundaries
Clarify the words that matter and keep the conclusion no broader than the passage allows.
Words That Matter
“Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil...”
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This exact opening wording anchors the first move in Proverbs 23:6–9; later lines in the unit must not replace its distinct role.
What the Passage Is Not Saying
Reading Proverbs 23:6–9 as edited wisdom rather than a detached formula rules out these uses:
The saying does not require silence about abuse, guarantee that gentle words stop danger, or make a harmed person responsible for another's aggression.
The saying does not diagnose addiction, shame bodies or appetite, guarantee control through willpower, or deny medical and community support.
The saying does not blame depression, trauma, grief, disability, or slow recovery on weak faith, and it does not make cheerfulness a duty owed to other people.
The unit does not turn a normal wisdom pattern into a universal promise, a complete causal explanation of suffering, or a mandate broader than Proverbs 23:6–9.
Context check: Within sayings of the wise, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
What Remains True Today
Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Unexamined appetite can narrow judgment and make people, resources, and responsibilities easier to neglect. Proverbs treats joy, grief, fear, envy, courage, and inward endurance as real parts of embodied life without making emotion a simple measure of virtue. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
Respond and Remember
Let the meaning shape life carefully, then practice explaining the section in context.
How This Should Shape Us
Why these applications follow
Role -> contextual meaning -> enduring truth -> application for Proverbs 23:6–9.
Within sayings of the wise, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Unexamined appetite can narrow judgment and make people, resources, and responsibilities easier to neglect. Proverbs treats joy, grief, fear, envy, courage, and inward endurance as real parts of embodied life without making emotion a simple measure of virtue. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
How does the application follow proportionately?
Pause, verify, listen, and choose truthful speech fitted to the hearer, timing, risk, and public consequences. Set realistic limits, reduce access to known hazards, seek support early, and respond to compulsive use without stigma. Name the emotion and its conditions honestly, avoid moralizing another person's distress, and seek relational, practical, pastoral, or clinical support proportionate to the need. For 23:6–9, begin with the line's actual role, state its contextual meaning, name this bounded enduring truth, and only then choose an action that protects dignity, safety, justice, and teachability.
A Concrete Example
A reader applying Proverbs 23:6–9 should first quote the line's actual contrast or image, then describe its work inside “The calculating host and speech wasted on a fool,” state the proportionate truth, name an exception or vulnerable person, and choose one accountable action rather than repeating a slogan.
Teach It Back
Explain Proverbs 23:6–9 in your own words. Identify its form and collection, trace one line from role through contextual meaning and enduring truth to application, name one uncertainty, and reject one misuse explicitly.
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Go Deeper
The main explanation above stands on its own. Open these optional sections for fuller language, history, disagreements, and source locations.
Read it sentence by sentenceEach line inside the larger movement
Exact verse-level work
Every line in Proverbs 23:6–9 retains its own Verse Lens role and does not borrow a neighboring verse's claim.
Collection context
The superscription and placement identify this unit inside “Sayings of the wise”: Longer admonitions address attention, social power, debt, appetite, wealth, boundaries, vulnerable people, discipline, envy, resilience, witness, and neighbor-love.
Proverbial proportion
The unit's instruction and observations concern speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life; they describe moral direction without explaining every exceptional outcome.
Original-language wording and grammarTechnical detail appears only where it helps
“Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil...”
This exact opening wording anchors the first move in Proverbs 23:6–9; later lines in the unit must not replace its distinct role.
How certain? very strongWhat the first readers would have understoodRelevant history and culture
Edited wisdom and social setting
This unit belongs to sayings of the wise. Aitken's printed pages 405-422 and the book-specific sources identify family, community, agricultural, commercial, scribal, court, and royal settings as relevant possibilities without proving one setting for every saying.
How certain? probableWhy translations sometimes differMaterial translation choices
No older-English term in this unit requires a separate reader note after reading the complete KJV line in context.
Earlier Scripture and inherited backgroundSupported quotations, allusions, and inherited ideas
Israelite wisdom setting
The unit's first horizon is Israel's wisdom collection under fear of the LORD. Torah-shaped justice, creation, household teaching, royal responsibility, and community life may inform the language, but no cross-reference overrides this unit's own parallelism and collection role.
How certain? probableHow this connects with the rest of ScriptureThe passage's own meaning remains primary
Responsible canonical location
Within the received book, Longer admonitions address attention, social power, debt, appetite, wealth, boundaries, vulnerable people, discipline, envy, resilience, witness, and neighbor-love. This local unit is read through that movement before broader canonical comparison.
How certain? probableTextual variantsManuscript differences only when they affect meaning
Textual and translation review
The complete NET notes attached to Proverbs 23:6–9 were inspected alongside MorphHB. No unreviewed alternative replaces the pinned KJV; any verse whose wording materially affects interpretation carries an expanded Lens and visible uncertainty rather than a silent emendation.
How certain? probableWhere careful interpreters disagreeThe strongest options and their difficulties
Where do careful readers disagree?
Best judgment: Interpreters disagree over how much literary meaning adjacent sentence sayings gain from small clusters. This package treats Proverbs 23:6–9 as a useful local cluster while preserving each saying's independent force and marking the boundary as revisable.
How certain? probableTheology that emerges from this passageConclusions drawn after reading the complete section
Theological contribution
The unit places practical wisdom under a moral order answerable to the LORD: Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Unexamined appetite can narrow judgment and make people, resources, and responsibilities easier to neglect. Proverbs treats joy, grief, fear, envy, courage, and inward endurance as real parts of embodied life without making emotion a simple measure of virtue.
How certain? strongTheological contribution
Within Sayings of the wise, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.”
How certain? strongCommon ways this passage gets misusedFair explanation, context check, and stronger reading
The saying does not require silence about abuse, guarantee that gentle words stop danger, or make a harmed person responsible for another's aggression.
A compact saying is easy to detach and universalize.
Within sayings of the wise, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Unexamined appetite can narrow judgment and make people, resources, and responsibilities easier to neglect. Proverbs treats joy, grief, fear, envy, courage, and inward endurance as real parts of embodied life without making emotion a simple measure of virtue. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.”
The saying does not diagnose addiction, shame bodies or appetite, guarantee control through willpower, or deny medical and community support.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within sayings of the wise, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Unexamined appetite can narrow judgment and make people, resources, and responsibilities easier to neglect. Proverbs treats joy, grief, fear, envy, courage, and inward endurance as real parts of embodied life without making emotion a simple measure of virtue. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.”
The saying does not blame depression, trauma, grief, disability, or slow recovery on weak faith, and it does not make cheerfulness a duty owed to other people.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within sayings of the wise, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Unexamined appetite can narrow judgment and make people, resources, and responsibilities easier to neglect. Proverbs treats joy, grief, fear, envy, courage, and inward endurance as real parts of embodied life without making emotion a simple measure of virtue. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.”
The unit does not turn a normal wisdom pattern into a universal promise, a complete causal explanation of suffering, or a mandate broader than Proverbs 23:6–9.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within sayings of the wise, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Unexamined appetite can narrow judgment and make people, resources, and responsibilities easier to neglect. Proverbs treats joy, grief, fear, envy, courage, and inward endurance as real parts of embodied life without making emotion a simple measure of virtue. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats”; by 23:9, it opens with “Speak not in the ears of a fool” and develops the line through “for he will despise the wisdom of thy words”. Together the unit concentrates on speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, appetite, intoxication, desire, and self-government, emotion, resilience, grief, and inward life within “Sayings of the wise.”
Research trail and exact locationsThe source record behind this section
Supports: Exact displayed KJV words, canonical order, paragraph flags, supplied-word markup, and complete unit coverage.
Proverbs 23:6–9, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 23:6-23:9
Supports: Verse-attached textual, lexical, grammatical, syntactic, parallelism, and older-English controls for the exact range.
NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1152-1156, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 23:6–9
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 23:6–9 and the Sayings of the wise outline
Supports: Abstract-level control for the dispute over individual-saying, small-cluster, and collection context; no uninspected detailed claim.
Weeks, ‘Context in the Sayings Collections,’ Early Israelite Wisdom (2000), official abstract and chapter pp. 20-40; methodological question applied to Proverbs 23:6–9
Sources for This Section
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Biblical text
King James (Authorized) Version — eng-kjv2006
eBible.org and CrossWire Bible Society
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Supports: Exact displayed KJV words, canonical order, paragraph flags, supplied-word markup, and complete unit coverage.
Exact location: Proverbs 23:6–9, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Open source ↗hebrew text and morphology
Open Scriptures Hebrew Bible: Proverbs
Open Scriptures
Open Scriptures, release 2.2
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Exact location: Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 23:6-23:9
Open source ↗translation and translator notes
NET Bible: Proverbs with translators' notes
Biblical Studies Press
Biblical Studies Press, 2006
Supports: Verse-attached textual, lexical, grammatical, syntactic, parallelism, and older-English controls for the exact range.
Exact location: NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1152-1156, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 23:6–9
Open source ↗modern critical commentary
Proverbs
K. T. Aitken
Oxford University Press, in The Oxford Bible Commentary, 2001
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Exact location: Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 23:6–9 and the Sayings of the wise outline
Open source ↗scholarly monograph chapter abstract and metadata
Context in the Sayings Collections
Stuart Weeks
Oxford University Press, in Early Israelite Wisdom, 2000
Supports: Abstract-level control for the dispute over individual-saying, small-cluster, and collection context; no uninspected detailed claim.
Exact location: Weeks, ‘Context in the Sayings Collections,’ Early Israelite Wisdom (2000), official abstract and chapter pp. 20-40; methodological question applied to Proverbs 23:6–9
Open source ↗