Proverbs 25:15–20, King James Version
Italic words were supplied in the English translation for clarity.
Proverbs 25:15–20
Friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries — By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft…
contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.”
Why this sits here
Proverbs 25:15–20 forms a reviewed local cluster inside “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.” Its lines concentrate on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule, while each sentence proverb retains its own force and the neighboring database unit does not supply its meaning.
What helps us understand it
How this passage works
Proverbs 25:15–20Proverbs 25:15–20 is the reviewed unit “Friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries — By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft….” Its parallel lines, repeated address, comparison, or local cluster controls how each verse contributes without borrowing a neighboring unit's subject.
The unit opens “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone” and closes “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so….”
Place in the book
Proverbs as a wholeProverbs 25:15–20 belongs to “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.” The collection heading makes editorial transmission explicit. Court access, conflict, speech, fools, friendship, agriculture, poverty, law, and rulers are held under justice rather than political absolutism. This unit contributes friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule through its own received wording and form.
The received sequence places Proverbs 25:15–20 inside Proverbs 25:1–29:27; this unit opens “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone” and closes “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so….” The unit's reviewed main point is: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.”
Proverbs 25:15–20 opens with “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone” and closes with “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so….” Those endpoints show the unit's movement from opening claim to reviewed close.
How the passage moves
Development (25:15–20): adjacent lines test friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule through parallelism, contrast, motive, image, or consequence.
Close (25:20): the unit contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”, creating the next supported pause.
Why this reading fits
Exact verse-level work
Every line in Proverbs 25:15–20 retains its own Verse Lens role and does not borrow a neighboring verse's claim.
Collection context
The superscription and placement identify this unit inside “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men”: The collection heading makes editorial transmission explicit. Court access, conflict, speech, fools, friendship, agriculture, poverty, law, and rulers are held under justice rather than political absolutism.
Proverbial proportion
The unit's instruction and observations concern friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule; they describe moral direction without explaining every exceptional outcome.
A needed correction
Reading Proverbs 25:15–20 as edited wisdom rather than a detached formula rules out these uses:
The saying does not require enabling abuse, unsafe reconciliation, unlimited access, or replacing qualified care with friendship alone.
The saying does not require silence about abuse, guarantee that gentle words stop danger, or make a harmed person responsible for another's aggression.
The saying does not establish divine-right politics, nationalism, authoritarian obedience, partisan demonization, or an unqualified mandate for a modern state.
The unit does not turn a normal wisdom pattern into a universal promise, a complete causal explanation of suffering, or a mandate broader than Proverbs 25:15–20.
What remains true
Wise relationships join loyal presence and honest counsel with boundaries that refuse exploitation. Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Public authority is judged by truth, justice, restraint, and its treatment of people with less power. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
How this should shape us
How does the application follow proportionately?
Show up consistently, speak difficult truth with care, receive correction, and protect the relationship from secrecy, flattery, and enabling harm. Pause, verify, listen, and choose truthful speech fitted to the hearer, timing, risk, and public consequences. Evaluate leaders and institutions by transparent process, material effects, protection of rights, and willingness to receive correction. In 25:15–20, let the concrete wording “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a…” keep that response tied to the people, action, comparison, or consequence actually named.
Teach it back
Explain Proverbs 25:15–20 in your own words. Identify its form and collection, trace one line from role through contextual meaning and enduring truth to application, name one uncertainty, and reject one misuse explicitly.
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Read it sentence by sentenceEach line inside the larger movement
Exact verse-level work
Every line in Proverbs 25:15–20 retains its own Verse Lens role and does not borrow a neighboring verse's claim.
Collection context
The superscription and placement identify this unit inside “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men”: The collection heading makes editorial transmission explicit. Court access, conflict, speech, fools, friendship, agriculture, poverty, law, and rulers are held under justice rather than political absolutism.
Proverbial proportion
The unit's instruction and observations concern friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule; they describe moral direction without explaining every exceptional outcome.
What the first readers would have understoodRelevant history and culture
Edited wisdom and social setting
This unit belongs to solomonic sayings copied by hezekiah's men. Aitken's printed pages 405-422 and the book-specific sources identify family, community, agricultural, commercial, scribal, court, and royal settings as relevant possibilities without proving one setting for every saying.
How certain? probableEarlier Scripture and inherited backgroundSupported quotations, allusions, and inherited ideas
Israelite wisdom setting
The unit's first horizon is Israel's wisdom collection under fear of the LORD. Torah-shaped justice, creation, household teaching, royal responsibility, and community life may inform the language, but no cross-reference overrides this unit's own parallelism and collection role.
How certain? probableHow this connects with the rest of ScriptureThe passage's own meaning remains primary
Responsible canonical location
Within the received book, The collection heading makes editorial transmission explicit. Court access, conflict, speech, fools, friendship, agriculture, poverty, law, and rulers are held under justice rather than political absolutism. This local unit is read through that movement before broader canonical comparison.
How certain? probableTheology that emerges from this passageConclusions drawn after reading the complete section
Theological contribution
The unit places practical wisdom under a moral order answerable to the LORD: Wise relationships join loyal presence and honest counsel with boundaries that refuse exploitation. Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Public authority is judged by truth, justice, restraint, and its treatment of people with less power.
How certain? strongTheological contribution
Within Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.”
How certain? strongCommon ways this passage gets misusedFair explanation, context check, and stronger reading
The saying does not require enabling abuse, unsafe reconciliation, unlimited access, or replacing qualified care with friendship alone.
A compact saying is easy to detach and universalize.
Within solomonic sayings copied by hezekiah's men, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Wise relationships join loyal presence and honest counsel with boundaries that refuse exploitation. Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Public authority is judged by truth, justice, restraint, and its treatment of people with less power. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.”
The saying does not require silence about abuse, guarantee that gentle words stop danger, or make a harmed person responsible for another's aggression.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within solomonic sayings copied by hezekiah's men, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Wise relationships join loyal presence and honest counsel with boundaries that refuse exploitation. Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Public authority is judged by truth, justice, restraint, and its treatment of people with less power. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.”
The saying does not establish divine-right politics, nationalism, authoritarian obedience, partisan demonization, or an unqualified mandate for a modern state.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within solomonic sayings copied by hezekiah's men, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Wise relationships join loyal presence and honest counsel with boundaries that refuse exploitation. Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Public authority is judged by truth, justice, restraint, and its treatment of people with less power. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.”
The unit does not turn a normal wisdom pattern into a universal promise, a complete causal explanation of suffering, or a mandate broader than Proverbs 25:15–20.
An ancient authority, household, wealth, gender, or consequence image can be imported into modern power without following the interpretation chain.
Within solomonic sayings copied by hezekiah's men, contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.” The sayings function as context-shaped instruction and observation: general patterns are not automatic guarantees, commands stay bounded by their ancient role, and an individual line must not erase the edited collection around it.
Wise relationships join loyal presence and honest counsel with boundaries that refuse exploitation. Words can reveal character, transmit truth, inflame conflict, protect others, or cause durable harm. Public authority is judged by truth, justice, restraint, and its treatment of people with less power. These truths remain proportionate only when the proverb's literary form, affected people, exceptions, and wider fear-of-the-LORD frame remain visible.
The context-supported contribution remains: contributes the claim, image, or instruction “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone”; by 25:20, it contributes the claim, image, or instruction “As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an…”. Together the unit concentrates on friendship, neighbor-love, loyalty, and boundaries, speech, listening, truth, and relational consequence, kingship, public authority, and accountable rule within “Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men.”
Research trail and exact locationsThe source record behind this section
Supports: Exact displayed KJV words, canonical order, paragraph flags, supplied-word markup, and complete unit coverage.
Proverbs 25:15–20, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 25:15-25:20
Supports: Verse-attached textual, lexical, grammatical, syntactic, parallelism, and older-English controls for the exact range.
NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1161-1164, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 25:15–20
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 25:15–20 and the Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men outline
Supports: Abstract-level control for the dispute over individual-saying, small-cluster, and collection context; no uninspected detailed claim.
Weeks, ‘Context in the Sayings Collections,’ Early Israelite Wisdom (2000), official abstract and chapter pp. 20-40; methodological question applied to Proverbs 25:15–20
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Biblical text
King James (Authorized) Version — eng-kjv2006
eBible.org and CrossWire Bible Society
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Supports: Exact displayed KJV words, canonical order, paragraph flags, supplied-word markup, and complete unit coverage.
Exact location: Proverbs 25:15–20, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Open source ↗hebrew text and morphology
Open Scriptures Hebrew Bible: Proverbs
Open Scriptures
Open Scriptures, release 2.2
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Exact location: Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 25:15-25:20
Open source ↗translation and translator notes
NET Bible: Proverbs with translators' notes
Biblical Studies Press
Biblical Studies Press, 2006
Supports: Verse-attached textual, lexical, grammatical, syntactic, parallelism, and older-English controls for the exact range.
Exact location: NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1161-1164, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 25:15–20
Open source ↗modern critical commentary
Proverbs
K. T. Aitken
Oxford University Press, in The Oxford Bible Commentary, 2001
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Exact location: Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 25:15–20 and the Solomonic sayings copied by Hezekiah's men outline
Open source ↗scholarly monograph chapter abstract and metadata
Context in the Sayings Collections
Stuart Weeks
Oxford University Press, in Early Israelite Wisdom, 2000
Supports: Abstract-level control for the dispute over individual-saying, small-cluster, and collection context; no uninspected detailed claim.
Exact location: Weeks, ‘Context in the Sayings Collections,’ Early Israelite Wisdom (2000), official abstract and chapter pp. 20-40; methodological question applied to Proverbs 25:15–20
Open source ↗