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Proverbs 31:1–3, King James Version
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Proverbs 31:1–3
A queen mother warns King Lemuel
A queen mother teaches a king, and her oracle is about his strength
The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him. What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son of my vows? Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
Lemuel is a king; the speaker is his mother; the genre is an oracle she taught him. Son of my womb and of my vows underlines costly love and dedicated life, not ownership. Strength given to women in this royal warning is the dissipation of a king's power through sexual appetite that wrecks thrones, the harem-and-favorite pattern, not a slur on women as such and not a rule against marriage, counsel from women, or this mother's own voice.
The first royal danger is a king who spends himself as a toy
Ways that destroy kings are the paths by which rulers become ruled by desire. The mother has standing to say this because she is forming a public servant, not because women are the problem in the room. A king who cannot govern his strength will not govern a people.
Do not hear this as a weapon against women, wives, or mothers. Hear it as a limit on royal appetite. The same chapter will close by praising a woman's strength; this opening refuses the king who consumes people.
How this should shape us
If you hold power, do not spend your strength on desire that unmakes your charge. Receive a mother's wisdom as wisdom, not as a lesser genre. Never use this warning to blame women for a ruler's lack of self-government.
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Proverbs 31:1–3, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 31:1-31:3
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NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1181-1182, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 31:1–3
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Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 31:1–3 and the A mother's instruction to King Lemuel outline
Supports: One historical-social account of poverty, wealth, interest, oppression, labor, and differing evaluations within the collection.
Wittenberg, ‘Situational context of statements concerning poverty and wealth,’ Scriptura 21, pp. 1-23, especially the sayings and redactional comparison relevant to Proverbs 31:1–3
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Exact location: Proverbs 31:1–3, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Open source ↗hebrew text and morphology
Open Scriptures Hebrew Bible: Proverbs
Open Scriptures
Open Scriptures, release 2.2
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Exact location: Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 31:1-31:3
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NET Bible: Proverbs with translators' notes
Biblical Studies Press
Biblical Studies Press, 2006
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Exact location: NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1181-1182, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 31:1–3
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Proverbs
K. T. Aitken
Oxford University Press, in The Oxford Bible Commentary, 2001
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Exact location: Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 31:1–3 and the A mother's instruction to King Lemuel outline
Open source ↗peer reviewed open access journal article
The situational context of statements concerning poverty and wealth in the Book of Proverbs
G. H. Wittenberg
Scriptura 21, 1987; open archive 2020
Supports: One historical-social account of poverty, wealth, interest, oppression, labor, and differing evaluations within the collection.
Exact location: Wittenberg, ‘Situational context of statements concerning poverty and wealth,’ Scriptura 21, pp. 1-23, especially the sayings and redactional comparison relevant to Proverbs 31:1–3
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