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Proverbs 5:15–20, King James Version
Italic words were supplied in the English translation for clarity.
Proverbs 5:15–20
Delight in mutual marital fidelity
The counter-picture is water that belongs at home and joy that belongs with a spouse
Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well. Should your springs overflow in the streets, streams of water in the public squares? Let them be for you alone, not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth.
Cistern, well, and fountain are marital sexual life in household imagery. The poem wants delight, not mere containment. Own does not make a spouse into property or a tap. A partner remains a person. Springs in the streets is wasted intimacy, not a slur on public women.
The body is invited to stay ravished at home, and the question exposes the waste of leaving
Let her be a loving doe, a graceful deer; let her breasts satisfy you at all times; be intoxicated always in her love. Why be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
Mutual pleasure is commanded as wisdom, not as a husband's entitlement regardless of the wife's will. This blessing cannot be used to trap someone in a violent marriage, to demand sex, or to shame a spouse who cannot or should not be sexually available. The warning still stands against throwing a vowed life into a stranger's arms.
How this should shape us
Honor a vowed partner with loyal joy, not with surveillance or entitlement. Do not treat a spouse as a utility for preventing fornication. Leave an unsafe marriage to safe help; this poem is not a lock on an abused person.
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Where do careful readers disagree?
Best judgment: Interpreters debate composition date, social setting, the relation of parental voices to personified Wisdom, and specific lexical or textual questions. The present judgment follows the received discourse while keeping those historical reconstructions probable or uncertain rather than settled.
How certain? probableResearch trail and exact locationsThe source record behind this section
Supports: Exact displayed KJV words, canonical order, paragraph flags, supplied-word markup, and complete unit coverage.
Proverbs 5:15–20, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 5:15-5:20
Supports: Verse-attached textual, lexical, grammatical, syntactic, parallelism, and older-English controls for the exact range.
NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1091-1092, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 5:15–20
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 5:15–20 and the Purpose, parental discourses, and the rival invitations of Wisdom and Folly outline
Supports: One tested account of urban imagery and continuity across the book without inferring one composition setting.
Dell, ‘Wisdom and Folly in the city,’ SJT 69.4 (2016), pp. 389-401, sections on maxims, social indicators, Proverbs 1-9, and conclusion relevant to Proverbs 5:15–20
Supports: Feminist and literary review of Wisdom, Folly, Strange Woman, mothers, wives, women in sentence sayings, and the closing woman of strength.
Hartwell, Wisdom, strange or somewhere in between (Birmingham PhD, 2017), pp. 13-25, 132-171, 172-204, 205-244, and 245-260 as relevant to the gendered figures and sayings in Proverbs 5:15–20
Sources for This Section
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Biblical text
King James (Authorized) Version — eng-kjv2006
eBible.org and CrossWire Bible Society
USFM archive eng-kjv2006_usfm.zip; source files dated 2026-08-19; downloaded 2026-08-24; archive SHA-256 aec1b3b26c622fd3d963d2bbac963016b9513246ffbfa20da00bb100372ea007; normalized corpus SHA-256 09aef51d90488aa7b9722b3fd9a93f4b25f6bf2064c5fd798fb39673c300ddf2.
Supports: Exact displayed KJV words, canonical order, paragraph flags, supplied-word markup, and complete unit coverage.
Exact location: Proverbs 5:15–20, repository-pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM-derived corpus
Open source ↗hebrew text and morphology
Open Scriptures Hebrew Bible: Proverbs
Open Scriptures
Open Scriptures, release 2.2
Supports: Masoretic Hebrew wording and morphology used only for the exact unit's lexical, grammatical, parallel, superscription, number-saying, and acrostic questions.
Exact location: Open Scriptures MorphHB v2.2, commit 6a5db284c715c18b239422e57bb89684e6a19f00, wlc/Prov.xml, OSIS 5:15-5:20
Open source ↗translation and translator notes
NET Bible: Proverbs with translators' notes
Biblical Studies Press
Biblical Studies Press, 2006
Supports: Verse-attached textual, lexical, grammatical, syntactic, parallelism, and older-English controls for the exact range.
Exact location: NET Bible Proverbs PDF, printed pp. 1091-1092, exact tc/tn/sn entries attached to 5:15–20
Open source ↗modern critical commentary
Proverbs
K. T. Aitken
Oxford University Press, in The Oxford Bible Commentary, 2001
Supports: Whole-book and collection orientation, local commentary, social-setting proposals, and named interpretation limits.
Exact location: Aitken, ‘Proverbs,’ Oxford Bible Commentary, printed pp. 405-422, subsection covering 5:15–20 and the Purpose, parental discourses, and the rival invitations of Wisdom and Folly outline
Open source ↗peer reviewed journal article
Wisdom and Folly in the city: exploring urban contexts in the book of Proverbs
Katharine J. Dell
Scottish Journal of Theology 69.4, 2016
Supports: One tested account of urban imagery and continuity across the book without inferring one composition setting.
Exact location: Dell, ‘Wisdom and Folly in the city,’ SJT 69.4 (2016), pp. 389-401, sections on maxims, social indicators, Proverbs 1-9, and conclusion relevant to Proverbs 5:15–20
Open source ↗open access doctoral thesis
Wisdom, strange or somewhere in between: in search of a real woman in the Book of Proverbs
Jeanette May Hartwell
University of Birmingham, 2017
Supports: Feminist and literary review of Wisdom, Folly, Strange Woman, mothers, wives, women in sentence sayings, and the closing woman of strength.
Exact location: Hartwell, Wisdom, strange or somewhere in between (Birmingham PhD, 2017), pp. 13-25, 132-171, 172-204, 205-244, and 245-260 as relevant to the gendered figures and sayings in Proverbs 5:15–20
Open source ↗