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Judges 14:16 Explained in Context

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Verse 16. And Samson’s wife wept before him, and said, Thou dost but hate me, and lovest me not: thou hast put forth a riddle unto the children of my people, and hast not told it me. And he said unto her, Behold, I have not told it my father nor my mother, and shall I tell it thee?

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Quick Meaning

This verse shows the threatened bride pressing Samson while he withholds even from his parents.

Read It With

  • Judges 14:10–20

Read Judges 14:10–20 together. This verse shows the threatened bride pressing Samson while he withholds even from his parents. The feast, companions, riddle wager, their failure, death threat against the bride and household, her pressured persistence, Samson's disclosure, their answer, his accusation, Spirit-enabled killing at Ashkelon, payment, anger, departure, and reassignment of the bride form the whole wedding crisis.

Why This Verse Appears Here

The scene centers a threatened woman trapped between male secrecy and violence and refuses to make either coercion or Samson's lethal retaliation entertaining wisdom. Within that movement, shows the threatened bride pressing Samson while he withholds even from his parents.

Read Judges 14:10–20 together

Why these verses belong together: The feast, companions, riddle wager, their failure, death threat against the bride and household, her pressured persistence, Samson's disclosure, their answer, his accusation, Spirit-enabled killing at Ashkelon, payment, anger, departure, and reassignment of the bride form the whole wedding crisis.

Verse 10. So his father went down unto the woman: and Samson made there a feast; for so used the young men to do.

Verse 11. And it came to pass, when they saw him, that they brought thirty companions to be with him.

Verse 12. And Samson said unto them, I will now put forth a riddle unto you: if ye can certainly declare it me within the seven days of the feast, and find it out, then I will give you thirty sheets and thirty change of garments:

Verse 13. But if ye cannot declare it me, then shall ye give me thirty sheets and thirty change of garments. And they said unto him, Put forth thy riddle, that we may hear it.

Verse 14. And he said unto them, Out of the eater came forth meat, and out of the strong came forth sweetness. And they could not in three days expound the riddle.

Verse 15. And it came to pass on the seventh day, that they said unto Samson’s wife, Entice thy husband, that he may declare unto us the riddle, lest we burn thee and thy father’s house with fire: have ye called us to take that we have? is it not so?

Verse 16. And Samson’s wife wept before him, and said, Thou dost but hate me, and lovest me not: thou hast put forth a riddle unto the children of my people, and hast not told it me. And he said unto her, Behold, I have not told it my father nor my mother, and shall I tell it thee?

Verse 17. And she wept before him the seven days, while their feast lasted: and it came to pass on the seventh day, that he told her, because she lay sore upon him: and she told the riddle to the children of her people.

Verse 18. And the men of the city said unto him on the seventh day before the sun went down, What is sweeter than honey? and what is stronger than a lion? And he said unto them, If ye had not plowed with my heifer, ye had not found out my riddle.

Verse 19. And the Spirit of the LORD came upon him, and he went down to Ashkelon, and slew thirty men of them, and took their spoil, and gave change of garments unto them which expounded the riddle. And his anger was kindled, and he went up to his father’s house.

Verse 20. But Samson’s wife was given to his companion, whom he had used as his friend.

Follow the Context

  1. Samson turns his concealed lion experience into a costly riddle wager at the wedding feast.
  2. The companions threaten the bride and household with burning; under sustained pressure she obtains and transmits the answer.
  3. Samson identifies their use of her, kills unrelated men for the garments, pays, departs, and loses the marriage arrangement.

Phrase-by-Phrase Explanation

“And Samson’s wife wept before him, and said, Thou dost but hate me, and lovest me…”

In plain language: shows the threatened bride pressing Samson while he withholds even from his parents

At Samson's feast, thirty companions receive a riddle wager. Unable to solve it, they threaten to burn the bride and her father's house unless she extracts the answer. She weeps under pressure until Samson tells her; the men answer through her. Samson recognizes the manipulation, then kills thirty men at Ashkelon for clothing, pays the wager, leaves in anger, and the bride is given to his companion. Within that movement, this wording shows the threatened bride pressing Samson while he withholds even from his parents.

Why it matters: This wording carries a material narrative, textual, historical, violence, vulnerable-person, land, leadership, or misuse boundary.

How certain? probable

What This Verse Is Not Saying

Judges 14:16 does not stand alone from 14:10–20. The threatened bride is not to blame for yielding under coercion. Its verse-specific role is: shows the threatened bride pressing Samson while he withholds even from his parents.

What Remains True

Shows the threatened bride pressing Samson while he withholds even from his parents. Secrets, wagers, and wounded honor become dangerous when powerful people make a vulnerable partner absorb the consequences.

How It Can Shape Life

  • Because Judges 14:16 shows the threatened bride pressing Samson while he withholds even from his parents, protect the threatened person, reject coerced disclosure, and address fraud through accountable process rather than retaliatory violence.

Teach It Back

Explain Judges 14:16's precise role in Judges 14:10–20. Include the scene's ancient covenant setting, one material uncertainty, the affected people, and one conclusion or violent imitation the context does not authorize.

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Continue in Context

The full thought-unit study remains the final contextual authority for this Verse Lens.

Read Judges 14:10–20 — A wedding riddle becomes coercion and retaliatory killing
Sources used for this Verse Lens

How certain is this explanation? probable

Where care is needed

Readers differ over the companions' assigned role, the bride's strategy, and how divine purpose relates to Samson's retaliation. The explicit arson threat and human cost remain nonnegotiable ethical data.

The bride's degree of choice is constrained by a credible death threat. The Spirit's rushing upon Samson empowers strength against Philistines but does not state approval of killing thirty people to settle a wager.

These are the sources used directly for this lens. Language, grammar, disagreements, and the complete source shelf remain attached to the full thought-unit research record.

Biblical text

King James (Authorized) Version — eng-kjv2006

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Exact location: Judges 14:10–20, pinned eng-kjv2006 USFM corpus

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NET Bible: Judges with translators' notes

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Exact location: NET Bible Judges PDF, printed pp. 476-478, translation and notes on 14:10–20

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